ramadhan gift : Muhasabah

Silapkah kita yg selalunya ialah selalu memikirkan perasaan sendiri sahaja.
Betulkah kita berasa cemburu, lalu mencantas kegembiraan oranglain yang beria-ia bercerita pada kita.
Betulkah kita berasa sakit hati lalu menyampuk percakapan oranglain yg mahu berkongsi rasa dgn kita.
Betulkah kita tidak rasa bersalah apabila kita tidak mmberi respon yg adil pada oranglain.
Betulkah kita tidak terdaya meminta maaf kerana berfikir orang terdekat itu tidak akan mengambil hati dgn cara kita?
Betulkah kita selalu berprasangka pada oranglain sedangkan kita mmg kenal dia selalu ada untuk kita, senang atau susah?
Betulkah kita amat mementingkan perasaan sendiri?

LEARN TO BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS

"Therefore, say we saw someone got something that we have always wanted, something that our hearts desire, something that has always been on our "Wish list", something that we have worked so hard for, something that we have been dreaming to have, something that makes us salivate and drool like when Homer simpson saw food, shouldn't we ask ourselves - Who was the one who actually gave those things to them?

Erm... Allah?

Of course Allah, you are absolutely right!
For that reason, if we are envious towards them all, doesn't seem that we are UPSET with Allah the Almighty?

Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Lord. ( surat At taubah, 9: 51)

So I asked myself: how on earth could I love others if.. I have envy creeping, crawling and growing in my heart all the time?"

You will not enter paradise until you believe and you will not believe until you love one another (related by Muslim)

It is he, the Devil, the one that has promised Allah to use whatever ways and means, to seduce humans to go against Allah, our Lord, so that we won't be able to enter His Paradise.


 ....... Do not envy one another ........ (related by Al Bukhari and Muslim) - rujukan hadis


Envy eats nothing but its own heart- a German proverbs
(that an envious person is only hurting themselves in their jealousy)


Based on book: Life is an open secret you, me and we, Secret seven by Zabrina A. Bakar.

Nurindah's note: As Zabrina the writer said, Learn to be happy for others. May Allah bless us all during Ramadan, and throughout the year.


Di bawah ini cuma tayangan menu tertunggak. Terima kasih buat teman2 yg berkunjung. :)) :

Ikan Senangin masak tempoyak. Tak susah, main lebur jer. 1 ulas bawang putih, 1/2 biji bawang besar, halia, lengkuas (semua ini dikisar), air setakat tahap ikan, 2 sdm tempoyak, cili padi diketuk cukup rasa, serbuk perasa dan garam. Saya rebus sehingga rasa ikan sebati dgn kuah. My hubby suka bila saya guna ikan ni buat masak tempoyak sbb ikannya rasa lemak.

Telur goreng dgn bawang, ikan bilis dan cili padi. Happy. Main tumis dan macam telur hancur.

Belajar makan ulam. Jarang makan ulam kecuali makan ngan nasi goreng. ;)

Sambal cili merah dgn mangga.

Sambal kerang. Happy too. sebab dah rebus kerang kelmarin dulu, frozenkan isinya. Separuh buat sambal.

Separuh lagi buat kue teow kerang ni.